The A–Z of Kinks & Fetishes: A Glossary of Desire

A is for Attention — and now you have Mine.

Before you can serve, you must learn. And what better lesson than the full alphabet of desire?

This is not your high school glossary. This is the A–Z of Kinks & Fetishes — a decadent index of what makes the body twitch, tremble, and beg for more. Every letter holds a secret. A taboo. A fantasy you've dared to think but never dared to name out loud.

Some entries might make you blush. Others? They’ll make you throb. And a few may just unlock something you've buried deep — under manners, under shame, under that vanilla little life you’re so ready to outgrow.

So, pet...
Read carefully.
Obey each definition.
And when a word makes your pulse quicken?

Linger on it. That one’s yours.

A – Age Play
Playing with power dynamics through age roles — think Daddy/little or caregiver/child (all consensual, of course).

B – Bondage
Being tied up or restrained — ropes, cuffs, or a silk scarf pulled just tight enough.

C – Cuckolding
Watching your partner be pleasured by someone else. A fantasy of submission, jealousy, and total surrender.

D – Dominance
Taking control. Giving orders. Owning the moment — and the body beneath you.

E – Electro Play
Safe, consensual stimulation using electricity. A spark of pain, a shock of pleasure.

F – Foot Fetish
Worshipping feet. Licking soles, kissing toes, or just staring with wild devotion.

G – Gags
The thrill of being silenced — with a ball gag, tape, or even a hand over the mouth.

H – Humiliation
Emotional edge play. Embarrassment, degradation, and the arousal that comes from shame.

I – Impact Play
Spanking, paddling, flogging. The sweet sting that leaves marks and memories.

J – JOI (Jerk-Off Instruction)
A Dom(me) tells you exactly how to touch yourself. And when to stop. And when not to.

K – Knife Play
Sensual play with blades. Not about harm, but the erotic tension of something sharp and close.

L – Latex/Lingerie Fetish
The look, the feel, the sound. Tight latex or lacy lingerie — it’s all about texture and tease.

M – Masochism
Taking pleasure in pain. From a soft bite to a deep bruise — it’s the ache you crave.

N – Nipple Play
Pinching, biting, clamping — these sensitive little buttons can take a lot more than you think.

O – Objectification
Being treated like a toy, a prop, or a piece of furniture. You’re not a person — you’re theirs.

P – Pegging
Strap-on penetration, typically with a woman topping a man. Power shift, unlocked.

Q – Queening/Face-Sitting
A throne made of a submissive’s face. Royalty sits, and they stay down.

R – Roleplay
From teacher/student to alien abduction — step into any fantasy and lose yourself.

S – Sensory Deprivation
Blindfolds, headphones, hoods — take away your senses, and everything else intensifies.

T – Temperature Play
Hot wax, ice cubes, warm breath — a symphony of sensation across the skin.

U – Uniform Fetish
Cops, nurses, military, maids. Dressing the part to act out desire.

V – Voyeurism
The thrill of watching. Or being watched. Either way, eyes linger.

W – Wax Play
Dripping candle wax onto the skin — a burn that quickly turns to bliss.

X – Xeno Kink
Attraction to the alien, the monstrous, the non-human. Think fantasy creatures — with talents.

Y – Yelling (Verbal Play)
Commands, degradation, praise — whatever makes you squirm when it’s screamed in your ear.

Z – Zentai
Full-body spandex suits. It’s about control, anonymity, and the eroticism of being completely covered.