Be entertained with some of New York City’s wildest denizens and enhance your social life with weekly member-only adventures at our secret Clubhouse.
Join to gain access to nights you'll never want to forget.
Explore bondage-basics at KinkLab, learn spiritual practices at Sacred Pleasures, enjoy some fantasy play at PlayDate and dine with top chefs at our supper series Dankquet.
If you’re looking to explore, NSFW has you covered.
Nights Out FOR GROWN-UPS
Friends WITh Benefits
Connect to over 1,800 highly curated, like-minded new friends on our private online community. Post on our Seeking page to help make your matchmaking easier.
Learn to build meaningful relationships and maintain excitement in your bedroom at our weekly adventures. Designed for intimate groups where participation is never required.
Members practice enthusiastic consent and are encouraged to report any inappropriate behavior. Our strict consent policies make our events some of the highest praised experiences in NYC.
Love is love
We don’t discriminate based on sexual orientation, gender or race. Pan, bi, straight, trans, gay, asexual, mono or poly. We choose members on the stories they’ve lived, not the labels they choose.