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10PM - 3AM



Hey you sexy fucks, 

Fun fact over 80% of the NSFW Membership identifies as bi, fluid or flexible. For Fluid all your curiosities will be satisfied with a crowd of members looking to mix things up. Take things at your own pace in a space designed with your level of comfort in mind. Called one of the best bisexual play parties in New York, this event is designed to titillate and excite with live performances and demonstrations from some of the cities top dommes and erotic artists. 

During this Adventure you’ll get to meet some new members and mingle in a carefully curated collection of sexy singles, couples and groups. Playdate is one of our most popular events so the guest list normally hits above 60 members so expect plenty of opportunities to make a first impression. There will be spaces for non-play and coupled only spaces to explore.

Here are some things to expect at NSFW PlayDate

What you can expect:

  • Meet new and classic members. Hear about that time we used to fuck in an escape the room. 

  • Get aroused by live kink performances or maybe pick up a pad and engage in some erotic sketching. Each week we create new performances and exclusive experiences.

  • Feeling Frisky? Find places to sneak away for semi-private and more public romps.

  • Bartender with selection of sodas, juices and mixers.

Some things to know. During this adventure, members and their guests will be encouraged to explore desires in a safe, judgement-free space. We are LGBTQ+ inclusive and practice enthusiastic consent. Dress code is black. Dress and play to your level of enjoyment and comfort. Participation is never required. BYOB is encouraged and feel free to bring a gift for the Clubhouse (sexy books or naughty polaroids are top choice). The Clubhouse is a cannabis-friendly space.

If you have any questions before the event reach out to

Hope to see you there. 

Always Conspiring, 

Chief Conspirator

Wanna let other members know you’re coming? RSVP here




We embody ideas inspired by love, freedom, exploring new states of happiness. We aim to create safe, inviting environments where playfulness is encouraged and free from judgement. NSFW is an LGBTQIA+ inclusive space.

PARTICIPATION IS NEVER REQUIRED and our space is designed to offer all levels of experience something to enjoy. Members are encouraged to practice ENTHUSIASTIC CONSENT which means receiving a verbal confirmation before initiating any type of touch. If at anytime you feel like you are not being respected there are guardians on hand to help. 

We aim to create spaces that allow for real, respectful connections between members. Guests can dress to their level of comfort. DRESS CODE IS BLACK.

As a member of NSFW we are entrusting you with helping to contribute not only to an inviting atmosphere, but also to a place where guests can explore radical self-expression safely. 

We have ZERO-TOLERANCE FOR INAPPROPRIATE BEHAVIOR. This includes non-consensual sexual contact, exhibiting harmful or hurtful behavior or speech, contributing to others feeling unsafe, and/or becoming overly intoxicated.

Members are always responsible for their guests. Failure of guests to uphold our Code of Conduct may result in membership cancellation. 

Please respect the privacy of all members. Please, NO CELL PHONES IN THE CLUBHOUSE. NSFW is a private community to meet other like minded people. Failure to respect a members desire for discretion may result in immediate termination of membership.



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